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DavesNotHere's avatar

I am a contrarian and enjoy arguing. But most people are not like that. Many are happy to accept popular ideas without too much examination, because it doesn’t seem worth taking the time to find out why the idea is dominant. So I find this dogmatic attitude understandable if not really excusable. Then this anti-platformIng thing becomes just a strategy to win cheaply. Arguing requires effort. Denunciation doesn't require much effort, and can be fun.

If the anti-platformers really believed that their position would lose in a genuine debate, they would have cognitive dissonance and it would bug them. It seems more likely that their attitudes are the results of lazy overconfidence. Sort of, “my group are the good guys, and we are rarely wrong, and certainly not in this obvious case. So it isn’t worth the effort to learn how the other side argues or how our side should respond to their objections. “

And it is a fact that bad ideas don't disappear after they lose the argument or have their falseness demonstrated. It can be tedious having to bone up on what ought to be a dead issue. But that dialogue helps to keep good ideas alive.

steve hardy's avatar

All my life I’ve been willing to debate anyone I disagreed with. I seldom changed anyone’s mind. I assumed most people would listen to reason. They don’t.

I also assumed they enjoyed arguing the way I did—as a kind of game or contest. I was wrong. Most people just get pissed off.

More recently, I’ve been trying a more Socratic approach: asking questions that aren’t threatening, but that might prompt someone to examine their own beliefs. I read an example about a canvasser in the South who went door to door asking about same-sex marriage:

“Do you favor same-sex marriage?”

“No.”

“Why not?”

“Because the Bible forbids it.”

“Do you know any gay people?”

“Yes.”

“Who?”

“My cousin.”

“What kind of person is he?”

“Honestly, he’s a nice person.”

"Etc."

Even if you don’t change anyone’s mind, you can at least learn why people believe what they do. I’ll admit, though: this is hard when you’ve been hardwired to argue for decades.

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